Sugar skulls, marigolds, and photos of departed loved ones—these are some of the symbols placed on altars (ofrendas) in Mexican and Aztec tradition. It’s purpose is to both honor loved ones who have died, and to make the fact of death one which is very much part of life.
This is a tender time, I think. It’s good to have a few days of looking at the photos of the deceased and remembering the sweetness of their lives. This is represented by the sugar skulls, which aren’t simply decorations—they are eaten by the children to give them the memory of happiness amid sorrow.
It’s not a bad idea, this normalizing death and celebrating lives lived. Many of us became more aware of the celebrations and importance of remembering our loved ones from watching the delightful Pixar film “Coco”. In fact, I may watch it again today, just because it is both timely and fun!
On this day, I will take the time to celebrate the lives of family and friends who have made their final journeys. I’ll create an ofrenda for them, with photos and candy, and I will thank each of them for how they added to my life. I’ll consider what I learned from each of them, and I’ll toast them all with a sweet drink.
Today, I’m grateful to have a special time to recognize these important folks who are, as Kathleen McGowen writes, “just in the next room”.
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